Nipple Sucker play

Yesterday we held Fet's Northern NSW group first munch of the year at our friends Satet and alexpierce's Black Rabbit Open Day.

They had an amazing array of toys there, everyone was having a lot of fun trying to work out what various toys did :).  We purchased some medical staplers and then Satet drew my attention to an interesting pair of suction devices for nipples:

 

Satet and Alex's website product info reads:

"SDN015 2-Piece Power Nipple Suckers: These simple and powerful nipple suckers are perfect for anyone looking for some consistent, strong suction. All you have to do is place the base of the sucker firmly against the nipple to create a seal, and then twist the easy-grip control cap to create immediate suction. Enjoy a light sucking sensation or twist the knob further to create a serious vacuum. Just turn the cap backward to return the internal plunger to its original position and release the suction when you are ready."

 

We had to buy these!  sol has extremely sensitive nipples but we'd never explored using suction on them.  We couldn't wait to try these out, so before sol left for work this morning we had a quick play.  First some saliva to help create the seal:

And then I placed one on each nipple and began to twist:

They looked like this:

sol of course wanted them twisted tighter lol ... so I obliged:

The suction pulls the nipple into the chamber of the device, expanding the nipple’s length and width. The suction increases the blood flow to the area, stimulating all the nerve endings, which become even more sensitive than usual. Now I definitely had sol's attention ... in several ways, if you include that hard-on!:

 I instructed him to masturbate while I continued my explorations, twisting further:

I was a bit worried that the little bit of hair around sol's nipples might have broken the seal but it was fine. As sol used his hand to wank:

 I used my hands to try pulling on the devices:

And pulling further:

 Then I tried tapping my fingers hard against each device:

 

As well as tapping sol's balls hard:

It wasn't long before he requested permission to come:

The devices were quickly undone and removed, leaving sol's nipples like this:

By the time he was dressed for work they were almost back to normal:

End result:

• While we've done cupping before, these little devices are really easy to use and need minimal preparation. 
• They are easy to attach during play, you can use saliva to seal them and there are no problems with twisting the device, the cap is easy to grip
• Unlike (for example) clover clamps (which we love) you can control the amount of pressure, just giving pleasure to those who prefer it, but easy to keep twisting the device up to a painful level if desired
• Once sealed they support themselves which frees your hands up for other things
• They are easy to clean. 
• They'd also be okay to travel with, you could put them amongst the shampoo / etc bottles in your toilet bag
• They fit perfectly on the nipples but we are already thinking about other ways of applying them.

These were really fun. We look forward to using them again :)
 

When the reality of play beats fantasy.... (pee play)

 

It's always a magical day when you can make one of your partner's long term fantasies come true ... and an even better day when he tells you later that the reality was even better than the fantasy!

You might remember we posted some photos of sol's latest construction:

We asked readers if they had any idea of it's function. One reader thought it might be a James Bond torture testicles chair, which was a good idea and indeed it could be used for that. Another emailed to ask if it was another queening stool, and again it can do that.

Time for the big reveal ... in sol's words:

"My latest woodwork project is a stool designed specifically so that Mistress  can pee directly into my mouth, comfortably and with little fuss. "

Pee play has been a part of our D/s relationship for several years. We know it's not for everyone but if it's something that interests you we sincerely encourage you to try it. We wasted a lot of time not communicating clearly about our shared desires.

Here are some of the water sports scenes we've posted about:

• Our first play with pee 
• Male subs drank their Mistress' pee in champagne glasses as a reward at the end of a tea party
• Part 1 of a really great scene: Subspace as 20,000 feet
• Part 2: The Infamous Film Canister Reappears
• How to do pee play on long car trips

Sol wrote about his interest in pee play in that first post:

"For a long time I had been interested in adding "watersports" (specifically drinking Mistress160's pee) to our bdsm repertoire. I had tried dropping ever so subtle hints - so subtle, She says,they were almost nonexistent. Eventually we managed to communicate and She agreed this was something She wanted to try, too...

"As an aside here, one difficulty I (and I think many other submissives) have in communicating our desires is that we want to be "forced" to do something that is taboo and unpleasant. If I could go to my Wife one morning and say "please Ma'am, may I drink your pee ?", then it wouldn't press my buttons. I want the delicious submissive cravings for a situation where She simply pushes me to my knees, says "now don't you dare spill a drop", and pisses in my mouth without me having a say in it at all. Of course in the real world this won't happen unless we talk about what my needs and desires are and how they fit in with Her needs and desires...

"The idea of providing 'toilet service' to my Mistress has been part of my fantasies for almost as long as I can remember, with origins probably reaching back to my almost pre-sexual submissive fantasies of childhood. How thoroughly degrading it would be to drink Her pee, to be Her toilet. How convenient it would be for Her if, on a cold winter's night, instead of having to get out of bed to take a pee, She could just wake me up and have me crawl under the sheets. Or in a dark, near-deserted cinema ... for me to crawl under Her skirt so she doesn't have to miss a minute of the film ... and then to sit with a bladder bursting, and having to ask (and be denied!) permission. Mmmm ... But all things need to begin somewhere ...

"Fantasizing about midnight 'service' under the covers may be well and good, but could turn into a very messy and uncomfortable night changing the bed and airing the mattress if it all goes wrong. We decided that taking a shower together (after She had consumed so many glasses of water that 'performance anxiety' wouldn't be a problem) would be the ideal place to start.

That first scene, our first real attempt, was very powerful for sol:

"One week in August we were staying in a house that had a shower almost big enough to lie down in, and I noticed in the morning that She was a little more bright-eyed than usual. We went in to shower together, and for five minutes or so we enjoyed the warm water, washed each other down with soap, and allowed the steam to build up enough that the room was warm and comfortable. Then She positioned herself so that the water was against her back, grabbed my arms and kissed me deeply, and then pushed me firmly down with a hand on the top of my head, until I was on my knees, with my face level with Her neatly trimmed pussy.

"She spread her legs slightly, and guided my mouth to Her crotch. Out of reflex, I extended my tongue and started to lick, but She stopped me with a tap on the back of my head. I waited while She concentrated, and after a minute or so, started to feel a hot, wet trickle start to hit the tip of my tongue. I had to bend my neck uncomfortably to get my mouth to the right place, but I stretched and pressed, and eventually managed to start drinking Her pee for the first time.

"I was prepared for the taste - bitter, even acrid, a little salty - but wasn't prepared for the way the aftertaste and more subtle scents fill your mouth and nose. Purely as a drink, you could perhaps treat this like cough medicine - it tastes bad but you can do it - but urine is not 'just a drink'. The subtle scents of it bring back memories of badly maintained public toilets, of squalid back alleys, and you are on your knees drinking it warm from the woman you love. Who is holding you to Her crotch with a hand pressed on the back of your head, as She pisses directly into your mouth. Realistically, I probably caught about 1/3 of her stream, some lost as I was finding the right angle, some as I struggled to swallow and catch it at the same time.

"It was powerful. It was profound. When She had finished, She cleaned us up under the shower spray for a few seconds, then turned off the water and helped me to my feet. I was too overcome to stand for a little while, and she had to wrap a towel around me and help me across the hall and into bed. Where we cuddled, and slowly recovered ... and where I found, when I entered her, that she was as wet as I was hard...".

Several years later pee play (usually with a tube sol designed) is quite common in our D/s life:

 

We both enjoy using this but it does have limitations. I'd like to sol to take over now and tell you more about his latest creation:

"One very long term fantasy of mine has been to drink my Mistress' pee. We have done this in practice many times now, but usually through a funnel. While this fulfils many elements of my fantasies and is very arousing, one key element of my long term desires has still been missing: drinking her pee directly from the source.

"We have tried this a few times in the shower, with mixed success. If she stands with her legs slightly apart, and I kneel in front, I can just get my lips to the right place to catch some urine, but most of it escapes. Sometimes I cup my hand below her pussy, catching the stream and directing it into my mouth. More successfully, I sit on the floor of the shower, put my hands behind me to support me, and can get my mouth into the right place to catch most of her stream. It's not very comfortable, though, and it takes some arranging - not something you can do every day.

"My latest woodwork project is a stool designed specifically so that Mistress can pee directly into my mouth, comfortably and with little fuss"

Once sol had finished his woodworking he placed a whole lot of cushions in it so we could get the positioning of his head right:

Like so:

Finally - after I'd drunk a thermos of hot water and had two soft drinks and jumped up and down a bit lol -  it was time to try it out :) We covered the cushions with plastic and then placed a towel on top:

Sol then lay down:

We worked out a signally system as he was obviously not going to be able to talk much during this: one tap with his hands on my thighs for "yes" / "go", two taps for "no" / "stop".

We began ... sol wrote later:

"I lie down looking up. Mistress comes towards me, naked from the waist down, and stands with her legs apart, straddling my body. I start to feel aroused as I see her pussy, exposed by her parted legs. She moves closer to get into position, until she is ready to start sitting down, and I am looking directly upwards at her. Just as her exposed vulva fill my field of vision, I catch the scent of her, a scent that is washed away completely by the shower. Her labia cover my nose as she positions herself far enough forwards for my mouth to catch her pee. My entire sensory world is filled with her pussy, and I'm pinned underneath her, barely able to breathe. Using hand signals, she shifts back and forth until my mouth aligns with her urethra, and I shape my lips to form a seal.

"When she starts to pee, my mouth is quickly filled by the warm, sour,  slightly salty liquid, and I have to try to swallow without closing my mouth.  It's something I've been practicing, but being right there and *having* to do it gives me a submissive rush. I gulp and gulp, struggling but succeeding in keeping up, until a greater need takes over. Eventually I need to breathe, so I signal (two taps with my hands) and she stops for me to take a breath.

"It's intense. My senses are totally filled. It takes concentration and you  have to work to keep up. You keep going as long as you can before needing a breath, because you're providing a service, and your own breathing is an inconvenience. And it's taboo, a transgression..."

When I was finished I got up, wiped a few small spots of pee away and looked at sol's enormous erection. "How was that?" I asked. "So much better than my fantasies" he replied. He later wrote of this: 

"desire I have had for thirty years or more, being finally played out in the flesh. The sum of all the parts is better than the dream, because in the dream all you really have is your own feelings, how you think you will feel when it happens, not the scent, the taste, the sensations, and the real live person sharing the experience with you."

I was so delighted everything had gone well. I was also incredibly turned on. I moved the stool away, left one cushion for sol's head and then sat on his face. I masturbated him while his tongue and lips pleasured me. I then got him to take over wanking while I pinched his nipples hard and moved my hips slightly so he was rimming me.

He asked for permission to come - in a rather muffled fashion, as I was sitting on his face - and did so quickly:

You should have seen his huge grin after we'd finished. You should have seen mine!

What a wonderful new item to add to our toys, thank you sol :)

Photos:

Ms160

Wiki

Steel Urethral Dilator with Lock

We visited Steve Sax's leather workshop and store in Byron Bay yesterday and came away with an interesting item to try. Steve had received it as a sample and wanted to know whether the design was functional and the item worth adding to his already enormous stock.

It's a stainless steel urethral dilator with a locking mechanism. Yum. I'm sure you can see why we were interested to give it a go. It's constructed of two pieces:

Here they are together:

We'd only been home minutes before we wanted to try this out lol.  We washed the device thoroughly and got out the lube, then sol slipped the ringed piece of the device over his cock and balls:

 

 Lots of lube was placed on the rod going into sol:

 

And well as down and on sol's urethra.  While I'm comfortable inserting sounds into sol this was a new item and sol was upright, so I directed him to push the rod down his urethra himself. Sol enjoys sounding very much so he was looking forward to trying this:

He used the rod to push lube further down his urethra and then reinserted it:

Finally it was all in:

I then locked the device with one of Sax's locks, that we use on sol's chastity devices:

 The whole thing looked amazing:

 And very hot!

Sol found it a real turn on, too. He was able to stand up and walk around, as long as he was careful. 

To see how it worked with erections I had sol go down on me for a while, as this always gets him hard. He WAS able to get erect.

It was 4.45pm. I said "let's leave it in until 6pm and I'll check on you every half an hour. Let me know too if you need a pee and we can test that, too". He went out to finish a kinky woodwork project and I checked on him out there at 5.30pm:

He said:

"you are aware of it all the time and I'm getting very horny. It keeps moving around when you walk, so essentially it's sliding in and out as your cock grows and shrinks"

We wondered whether this meant it wouldn't work under clothing. Then again clothing might it hold it in place. Something we can test next time.


I found the device especially erotic from behind, the way the metal pieces and the lock swung down between his legs:

 It reminded me of Story of O.

Just before 6pm he needed a pee so I had him fetch a bucket. Because the device is solid we were not sure he'd be able to go. But all went well:

Sol said:

"It was a bit difficult as obviously you are peeing around a steel rod but it was fine"

 He cleaned up:

And then I took the lock off:

And I removed the rod as sol took photos. Gently:

Gently:

Until finally it was out. Here I am showing that all is well with sol's urethra:

Sol had a little bit of burning with his next pee but nothing more than he usually experiences after sounds play.

FINAL THOUGHTS:

We had a lot of fun with this device, and plan to have lots more. Thank you again to Steve Sax for suggesting we try this sample. We'll certainly recommend stocking it.

• We see it as a short term play device rather than a long term one (like a classic chastity device) that can be used in general play. For example, I was thinking of having him wear it next time he's wearing a butt plug. The double sensation was be pretty intense.
  

• The only problem was that the rings were a bit big for sol and slipped down a bit when he was not erect or just walking around. We've seen examples of this for sale where there are two ring sizes (44.4mm ( 1 3/4" ) and 50.8mm ( 2" )) so we'll suggest to Steve that he stock both.
  

• The urethral plug was small enough for sol to pee out of it, which means it was a perfect fit. The maximum diameter of the urethra plug 8mm(0.315"), effective length of about 9cm(3.54").
  

• Because of the ring size and the length of the device sol was able to get a (slightly bent) erection but as we don't plan to use the device as a chastity device, that's not a problem. 
  

• As with sounding, lube (and re-lubing) is VERY important. Remember, lube shooters are useful for things other than anal play *grin*
  

What sol especially liked:

• the feeling of the urethral dilation. As always in terms of describing sounding sensations he found the actual sensation impossible to articulate.

• sol now wants to try a Princes wand: "it make you think a prince's wand would be worth playing with because as you shrink it goes further into you, not the other way around like this"

 What I especially liked:

• It changes the dynamic of sounding. It's like sounding "on the go", so to speak. Usually with sounding sol is flat on a massage bed with me inserting the sounds as he lies still. You absolutely must not move with sounds. With this device I can insert the device and lock him in, then send him out to do household chores. Very carefully of course.
  

•  The look and sound of the device. As I wrote above they remind me of O's metal rings between her legs, in Story of O ("The irons attached to the left lobe of her belly cleft, proclaiming in bold letters that she was Sir Stephen's personal property, came about a third of the way down her thigh and, at every step, swung back and forth between her legs like the clapper of a bell, the inscribed disk being heavier and longer than the ring to which it was attached")

• How turned on the device makes us both :)
  

 WANT ONE?

S(A)X doesn't have this device listed yet but if Steve decides to stock it I'll add a link here :) (you might like to check out his other cock and ball toys and chastity devices)


You'll find similar devices at various fetish stores. Google "urethral dilator with lock" or even just "penis plugs", there are so many amazing designs. In selecting one you need to think through what you want to do with such a device. Do you want one so tight you can't pee or come through it?  Or one that's hollow?  What about erections?  If you are looking for an open chastity device with a major urethral component have a look at Male Chastity Now's Cock Trap:

"the Cock Trap seizes the penis while soft, and locks on to prevent erection, intercourse or masturbation.... Just slide his testicles and penis through the solid steel ring, then insert the hollow urethral wand into his flaccid penis using a personal lubricant. Finally, lock it all together with the included padlock. The compact design keeps the penis naturally pointed downward, so bulging and noticeability is virtually non-existent. The urethral wand is rounded for easy insertion, and allows him to urinate while remaining confined. This innovative, open design makes the device much more hygienic to use than devices which completely enclose the penis. The CockTrap uses a hollow tube, allowing urine to flow through the tube when the wearer uses the bathroom. The standard outer tube diameter is 5/16," though custom made devices with larger diameter tubing are available for the daring or advanced user"

Photos:

Ms160

solipsist

Xmas Sphinx fuck

On our Love Our Lurkers Day post last year Chirenon left a comment that included:

"I love [sol's] sphinx and I would like to see more things done to him while he's in it, especially dildo fucking"

To which I replied:

"Glad you like The Sphinx. Sol agrees with you that using it for getting fucked would be excellent, so we'll try and get that happening and some photos taken, over Xmas"

Hope Chirenon enjoys the following photos *grin*.

Readers unfamiliar with The Sphinx might like to take a quick look at this post, which in turn quotes this description of the device an earlier post:

"It's a rather useful frame consisting of several nicely sanded pieces of wood and half a dozen leather dog collars. The entire frame can be taken apart, stored or transported and very quickly and easily re-assembled.

"The collars attach to the sub's neck, wrists, ankles - and lastly, a very fiendish one around the cock and balls.... The result is a neatly imobilized sub. Its not nearly as comfortable as it looks (joke)...

"The frame's positioning of the sub presents all sorts of interesting posibilities, including a well positioned back (for all sorts of impact toys) and a lovely raised ass with cheeks apart. Great for ...well, everything really ..."

For today's scene we had placed The Sphinx on a thick carpet on the ground. You can see from the photo below how nicely The Sphinx presents sol:


How could I resist?!:


I'd selected several dildos earlier and directed sol to put condoms on them:


For new players reading this who want an idea how to set up a scene like this, I had the following items close to hand:

• packet of latex gloves (with talc) (even though sol and I are fluid bonded I find wearing gloves during pegging or dildo fucking means I can clean up quickly. I can also remove them and then take photos, then put on a new pair. The talc means they are easier for me to put on)
  
• extra condoms
• box of tissues
• two containers of lube
  
• anatomically shaped butt plug (the discoloring you can see in the photo above is the actual rubber, it's quite clean lol)
  
• small gold vibrator with new battery
  
• black rubber anal probe
• three black dildos of increasing size (these came from Black Rabbit, I first posted about them here. They've been brilliant for anal play, lovely and smooth and the sizes are great)
  
• plastic rubbish bag (just chuck everything in as you go along and there is no mess at the end)
  
• razor (to remove any stray hairs around sol's ass)
• trick towel / facecloth (for any mess that needs a quick wipe and to clean sol up after he came)
  
• black rubber InHerTube's shoe harness (you can see me wearing it on a boot here but I also find it goes on my hand really well)
• camping head torch with new batteries (I wear this on my forehead and it frees up my hands while directing bright light onto the anus - this means you can watch out for any tiny fissures or blood etc)
• clock
• camera
  

Anal play takes a bit of preparation. Before we played sol did several enemas with rests in between. I then had him wear the anatomically shaped butt plug for half an hour or so. This both stretched him and when removed, confirmed that he was clean enough to proceed. By the time he's done all this he's in a perfect mindset for anal play.

The Sphinx is extremely uncomfortable so it's important to keep an eye on the time length of the scene, and also to make sure sol is aware I want to know the moment he needs to come out of it as it takes a few minutes to undo everything.

I planned for about 15 minutes ... but I was also not sure whether anal play would be possible ... The Sphinx causes muscles to cramp quickly and sol was going to have to really concentrate on opening himself to me.

I began with lots of lube:


I love watching the lube drip down his ass, knowing I'm about to fuck him, it's such a turn on:


I then worked my lubed fingers and thumbs into him:


And spent a minute or so massaging and entering his ass hole with a small lubed vibrator:


At this point sol said his shoulders were taking too much strain so I quickly undid his neck and wrist restraints. With the neck pole of The Sphinx removed he could remain in position with his head on the floor:


So I got back to work. Time to insert the anal probe ... here I am lubing it up:


This works very nicely as a warm up tool and also massages the prostate:


I fucked sol for about ten minutes with the anal probe. I undid the leather strap around his balls so I could masturbate him at the same time. This was so much fun. He was making lovely noises...

I then moved to the smallest of the three black dildos, which I placed in the InHerTube's shoe harness. Worn over my hand it made a great harness:


This is one of my favorite strap on harnesses. It's so versatile. I also like it because it's easy to remove the dildo from the harness during play ... which I've done in the photo below to show how nicely sol is plugged:


Sol now mentioned he was experiencing a burning sensation. I removed the dildo while we checked everything out. The bright light from my head torch showed his asshole was nicely lubed and open and he confirmed it wasn't the actual penetration that was worrying him. We both thought it might be the close fit condom on the black dildo. He'd had no trouble with burning from the anal probe's condom but the black dildo's condom was flavored and I've had trouble using flavored condoms myself.

After a short break I began to insert the second dildo, which had the same condom as the anal probe:


But sol really was too sore to continue... Bugger. So to speak. We'd both been looking forward to that final, enormous black dildo!:


I took sol off The Sphinx:


And then joined him in bed. We had hopes of continuing when his ass became less sore. While we waited I instructed sol to go down on me and then after I came, rim me. It didn't take much on my part to make him come shortly after this:


What an impressive amount of come for someone who came quite a lot last weekend! It shot all the way up to his neck and down to the pillow.

Totally exhausted from our orgasms we showered in our outdoor bathroom (remember it's summer here in Oz):


And collapsed back into bed...

Next morning we were greeted by the sight of that poor sad unused huge black dildo still sitting there, so we decided we'd finish the scene next weekend :)

Photos:
Ms160